However, those who provide goods and services (secular) shouldn't be able to block the selling of their commodities. There's a difference between religious liberty and discrimination.
this was proposed by Democrats a long time ago- similar to the reason why churches cannot be forced to hire lady pastors, they are protected from the anti-discrimination law.
Republicans rejected it in order to maintain the wedge issue. I think we are probably on the same page about it. Legalizing and codifying marriage between consenting adults is needed.
Forcing performing the marriage onto a pastor is wrong or in a house of worship is wrong if they hold a genuine belief that this is against their faith.
But if someone's asking for a cake- they aren't asking for your approval or your involvement in a marriage or the ceremony.
A cake is a cake is a cake. That it is a wedding cake only signifies a type of fanciness, not the cake-makers approval of you as a couple.